I love the girl's attitude in the video!

- Live your life
- Do what you want
- Fix yourself

- Don't task your mind with negatives
- Build self confidence ;

Dress Sharp
Although clothes don't make us, I think they certainly affect the way we feel about ourselves. No one is more conscious of your physical appearance than you are. When you don't look good, it changes the way you carry yourself and interact with other people. Don't you think so ?!

Feeling confident and being judged
Lets suppose that a friend of yours knew you for 5 years, won't his/her judgement be somehow accurate?
Of course, after all he/she spent a lot of time with you and the person knows a lot about you. Now what if someone knew you for 10 years, won't his/her judgement be even more correct?

What about someone who have lived with you since you were born?
No not your mother nor your father.

It's you!! You are the only one who knows everything about you and the only one who has full access to your thoughts, beliefs and real intentions. That's why you should consider other's judgment errr.. useless.
In short, most people will judge you incorrectly and if you want to feel confident all the time then you should really give a flying fuck to their judgment. Ignore people who put you down, they aren't worth your time.

But just a second, will that make you confident?
No it wont before your own judgment of yourself become positive. This means that feeling confident all the time doesn't only require that you don't depend on others for determining your worth but it also requires that you know that you are worthy.

Build the skills that you lack, fix yourself, take a chance; you will never know what you can accomplish if you don't try. Even if you fail at your attempt, you will still feel good about yourself for giving it a shot. You will have no regrets.

But for the most part, it's really as simple as saying to yourself "I'm confident" and feeling confident.

Confidence! ;)

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Random: People are so quick to judge nowadays. It's such a double standard in society - we tell girls they should be confident and feel beautiful all the time, but then we tear down girls who ARE confident out of jealousy and hate. I really don't get it.

Personally, I think having a good heart is infinitely more important than any physical attribute. No?